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「一緒にいるだけでいい」夫が妻に伝え続けていたのは愛だった【完璧な母親 Vol.58】

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 ■これまでのあらすじ
 
 
 
 完璧な母親になりたいあまり、ペキ子は自分の信じた道を突き進むことで夫の優一を置いてきぼりにして子育てに没頭してきた。しかし娘と毎日向き合う中で、長年ペキ子を苦しめてきた母親のトラウマが払しょくされ、ペキ子は自分も子どもも「完璧じゃなくてもいい」と心から思えるようになる。すると優一はこの時を待っていて、「ペキ子は完璧じゃなくて人一倍不器用だけどその分努力する、俺の人生で出会った中で1番良い子」と伝えるのだった。
 
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 ■これで説得できる…
 


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 ■ずっとやさしかった…！
 


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 ■今ならわかる…
 


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 優一は映像の前後を見ていたし、今までのペキ子の態度を見ていて「大丈夫」だと確信したのでしょう。


 ペキ子がどうして「完璧」にこだわるのかはわからない。しかし優一は「一緒にいるだけでいいんだよ」「完璧じゃなくても君が大好きだよ」と、出会った頃と変わらない愛を伝えてくれるのでした。


 いつだって優一はこうして愛を伝えてくれていたし、ただ信じたことにまっすぐに頑張るペキ子を見て「ひとりで頑張らなくていいんだよ」と声をかけてくれていました。


 でも、そんな優一の言葉を母と同じだと勘違いしていたペキ子。そのことにやっと気づき、優一という存在の大切さに涙が出るのでした。


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 By Oluwapelumi Oluwayemi
 
 
 
 The Nigerian artist Mr Eazi shared the profound sorrow he felt after losing his mother, Pastor Mrs Ifeoma Edith Ajibade.
 
 
 At her funeral, as his mother was buried, notable attendees included the renowned businessman Femi Otedola along with his spouse, Nana Otedola. The music artist Tekno was likewise in attendance to back up his close associate and fellow musician, Mr Eazi.
 
 
 I feel an unspoken longing for you. The gap created by your departure remains unfilled; it’s a sorrow even time fails to mend," he said. "Not even cherished recollections can substitute for your presence, your affection, or your steadfast backing. You stood as the bedrock of our belief system, the pillar from which countless others drew fortitude and direction.
 
 
 Mr. Eazi portrayed his mother as an individual who led a life of selflessness, constantly making sacrifices and offering support, particularly during times when he found it hard to have faith in himself. He highlighted how her steadfast confidence in him greatly influenced both his personal journey and professional path.
 
 
 Without you, life seems chilly, remote, and unfinished," he went on. "Even though everyone says you're in a better place, personally, I long for your presence here with us—binding us, leading us, and cherishing us just as only you can.
 
 
 The homage likewise highlighted the part
 
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 His mother took part in shaping his life, providing comfort during his fears and consistently recognizing greatness within him, even when he couldn't recognize it in himself.
 
 
 “My mother, you bore my burdens, guided me with affection, soothed my fears, and consistently saw excellence in me,” he continued. “I pledge to lead a life that honors your aspirations for me, to grow into the person you always knew I could be.”
 
 
 
 Mr Eazi
 
 he ended his homage with a vow to cherish his mother’s affection and legacy, stating, "Thanks for loving me without limits. Thanks for always supporting me. Thanks for being my mom. I love you. I miss you. And till we reunite, I will hold onto your love eternally."
 
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"Mr. Eazi's Heartfelt Farewell: 'Life Feels Cold Without You'" – International Edition (English)

By Oluwapelumi Oluwayemi The Nigerian artist Mr Eazi shared the profound sorrow he felt after losing his mother, Pastor Mr...

「一緒にいるだけでいい」夫が妻に伝え続けていたのは愛だった【完璧な母親 Vol.58】

DIWIDA.NEWS asia, children and families, family relationships and dynamics, marriage, mothers

「一緒にいるだけでいい」夫が妻に伝え続けていたのは愛だった【完璧な母親 Vol.58】